How Mediation Works

      The mediator remains neutral throughout the discussions, listening to both sides, helping them analyze the various issues involved, helping them generate options, and helping them come to agreement.

      The mediator does not impose a solution; all decisions are made by the parties themselves in keeping with their needs and values. If agreement is reached, the mediator can prepare a separation agreement, which ultimately becomes part of the divorce decree.

      Mediation is much quicker and more cost-effective than adversarial proceedings and exerts less of an emotional toll on the family. While every mediation is different, many can conclude within four to six two-hour sessions. In addition, the results are more likely to be tailored to the needs of the family since they are created by the family rather than by a stranger (a judge).